Archetypes for each other's wounding

What do I need to see/learn from this daily AG pick?

A Lunar Eclipse occurs when the Moon passes directly behind the Earth into its umbra (shadow). This can occur only when the sun, Earth, and moon are aligned (in "syzygy") exactly, or very closely so, with the Earth in the middle. 

When sets of eclipses occur the cosmic forces of alchemy alter frequency current and manifest new potentials in creation for shifting one's consciousness in either direction of polarity. Thus, this tetrad of lunar eclipses alter the magnetic field and magnify the Galactic Zodiac influence, the alchemical principle of the current constellation transmission into the planetary grid.

https://ascensionglossary.com/index.php/Lunar_Eclipse

Also:

Today I think I get to meet HAZEL!!! 

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4:22 I am in tears and have been sobbing reading the gridwork notes from Mhairi and Sequoia.. I can't even say exactly what I read but it was very personal and powerful and an update on what we've been working on as a "ground crew". Definitely felt the connection to Kelsey there. 

I'm not sure if it's psychic attack or an insight but I had a thought that Paul is talking to other women - this has come up the whole time with me - this fear of him "cheating"... but it's not for me. He can't "cheat"... I AM and HE IS. WE ARE. The rest is the work to get there. If he is talking to, having sex with, whatever... other women... I surrender it. 

I saw a message pop through that sounded like the way he pinpoints body parts as a sexual fantasy text game. When we first started talking he said "your neck" to me and I felt the sexual golum-type energy come through it. This was a month or two ago. I said I couldn't go there with him at the time because I was working, but I felt the call through it. 

Just now he said "my neck, my back" (not sure of the punctuation).... and then deleted it quickly. I think he sent it to the wrong person - I think he was talking to someone else. And he wanted their attention on those parts of him. So I felt into it and I surrender it.

I sent him a note saying that I accept him in this moment just the way he is .... actually I said this:

I accept you in this moment just the way you are. You are fully loved and held in the light of God (Source, Universe, whatever). Peace and healing be with you, beloved.

...and that's all I can do. He needs to go through his process. We are both here to transmute and heal the sexual misery program. He has to choose, on his own, to transmute porn, cheating, lust, all that stuff. I have had to work with pedophilia, rape, trauma, fear, frigidity, etc. 

The only way to heal is through LOVE. And ACCEPTANCE. Of self and the other. WE ARE ONE. I think my self-acceptance and Paul-acceptance helps him find his own Paul-acceptance as well as Carissa-acceptance.

I'm the one who has hurt him.
He's the one who has hurt me.

Not "technically" in these skins in this life, but we are the archetypes for each other's wounding. And we also are each other's divine beloved. THIS IS WHAT WE CAME TO DO. To work out. To HEAL. 

Thank you God for this insight.