Dear Ryan, I'd like to invite you to an honest conversation about the nature of our relationship. There is no doubt that we love each other and we have fun together! Can we talk about whether that translates into a good long-term relationship prospect and whether one or both of us are interested in that? Can we talk about our future goals? (It was eye-opening to hear you say your 3-year plan looks exactly like your life now. Nothing wrong with that, but the question is batted back over to me about whether that's in alignment with MY 3-year plan/hopes/goals.) I'd just like to explore some of these things together with peace and neutrality and to work together with my best friend to help us both to do what's right for us collectively and individually.
(I loved how you shared yesterday about how when we are out of alignment with ourselves, we need to reflect and get back into alignment. You were talking about it in a day-to-day reflection context, and it also applies in a broader sense as well. This motivates me to try to be more intentional about my choices and direction.)
Are you open to that kind of conversation? If so, when would work best for you?
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